At least for once I believe many of us would have definitely thought that, they are living life just for people in their life. To a large extent decisions which we take in our life are taken considering the impact of decision on them, these people could be our friend, family member’s or even people in our professional world.
How far we can be practical or diplomatic in our Life ?
Many a times it’s not possible to take a practical decision because of our relation with them. Living for others is not very easy because your kind gesture may or may not be acknowledged as you have thought. A lot of time I wonder how far one can give unconditional love, care and affection to someone ?
Me being very sensitive and practical person major decisions taken by me are taken keeping people in my life.
One can definitely live the life the way he/she wants but it should not hurt emotions of loved ones in their life, I know friends, it’s not possible every time to keep every one happy……….but at least we can Try .
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With regards to the topic Living for others by Ruchi i would like to share my views ,
ReplyDeleteThere are very few people who live for others in general, but a lot of them live for others if we look in a family.
Every individual has there own way of lifestyle and thinking on various issues .
In everyone’s life there is a situation when you have to take a ethical decision which may harm your loved ones. In such situation very few of us are able to take the decision faithfully.
Living for other is not similar at every place. It differs from place to place , person to person and situation to situation .
After thinking a lot I feel a person should first live for himself and then only he will be able to live for others.
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ReplyDeleteI agree with arvind i.e first live for yourself.
I believe that no body lives for others if you are doing somting for good of other people may have any of two reason.
1. For your satisfaction i.e after doing such things you get satisfaction in life so you are doing for yourself.
2. You are not left with any other option , so you have to do it, as you mignt not be able to handle the consequences and because of that fear you are pretending to be living for others.
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Living for others
ReplyDeleteAccording to my opinion if this particular thinking comes in the mind of any person that he is living for others, that means he is not living for others but he is living for him self, because there are very few in this world who live for others. The word like "I" "Me" "My" "Myself" doesn't comes in there mind, whatever they think they think in general not specifically for individual.
Its not easy to live for others in this modern world, it requires lots of sacrifice, you have to kill your ego, you have to think from others point of view not from your point of view and most important you must have humanity.
But if we look at the current situation ego is there in each and every person, people keep there personal interest first instead of looking at others situation and sacrifices, I think so meaning of this word has change today, if one person do some favor for other person, he think he has done some sacrifices. Which is not sacrifices its favor.
So friends actually we are not living for others, we are living for ourself. I will request all the people first become human and learn humanity you will automatically live for others.